Laurence Heller, PhD, spent over 40 years in private practice recognizing that developmental trauma creates not just nervous system dysregulation but fundamental identity distortions—pervasive shame, self-judgment, and disconnection from authentic self. He developed the NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM), now taught worldwide, mapping five adaptive survival styles arising from disrupted developmental needs (Connection, Attunement, Trust, Autonomy, Love-Sexuality) and providing framework for healing through disidentification from survival-based identities while working simultaneously with psychology and physiology within attuned therapeutic relationships.









