Attachment Styles in the Body: How Anxious and Avoidant Nervous Systems Feel

Attachment Styles in the Body: How Anxious and Avoidant Nervous Systems Feel

Attachment Styles in the Body: How Anxious and Avoidant Nervous Systems Feel Most of us have taken an online quiz to find out if we have an “Anxious” or “Avoidant” attachment style. We label ourselves and our partners, hoping that understanding...
Beyond Mindfulness: Why Meditation Can Sometimes Make Trauma Worse

Beyond Mindfulness: Why Meditation Can Sometimes Make Trauma Worse

In the wellness world, mindfulness is marketed as a universal cure-all. We are told that if we just sit still, close our eyes, and watch our breath, our anxiety will dissolve. For many people, this is true. But for trauma survivors, this advice can be dangerous. It is...
Grounding 101: The Biology of Panic and 5 Somatic “Brakes” to Stop It

Grounding 101: The Biology of Panic and 5 Somatic “Brakes” to Stop It

Grounding 101: The Biology of Panic and 5 Somatic “Brakes” to Stop It If you have ever experienced a full-blown panic attack, you know that “terrifying” is an understatement. It feels physiological, not psychological. Your heart hammers against...
The Body Keeps the Score: Why Talk Therapy Isn’t Enough for Trauma

The Body Keeps the Score: Why Talk Therapy Isn’t Enough for Trauma

There is a specific, frustrating narrative we hear constantly at our clinic in Birmingham. A client comes in, exhausted and defeated, and says: “I’ve been in therapy for ten years. I can explain exactly why I have these panic attacks. I know it stems from my...
Active Imagination vs. Meditation: What’s the Difference?

Active Imagination vs. Meditation: What’s the Difference?

If you have ever tried to meditate and found yourself frustrated by a mind that refuses to go blank, you are not alone. The modern wellness industry heavily promotes mindfulness and “quieting the mind” as the gold standard for mental health. But for many...